Tomorrow is hubby's birthday and I will get his birthday spanking. It will be the third one this week. I am in spanko heaven. The first was a lovely hand spanking - he just led me to the bedroom -no warning at all. Love those surprises. The second was a result of Grace's blog list, she said she hated being spanked with the bamboo back scratcher. So naturally, I told hubby we had to try it. It was quite stingy especially on the bare. Must do it again.
Can't wait for tomorrow's surprise. One thing I know, it will be a long one because hubby is pretty old. I'm pretty old too so I hope I can hold up (I don't think it will be a problem, I have a hard ass, or so I've been told. Oh wait, maybe he meant I am a hard ass) The one thing I am sure of I will enjoy it and the "afterward".
Want to mention we have a new blogger in our "midst". It's Minelle La Braun. She has been commenting as herself for a while and was a lurker long before that. She has written a story or two for New Beginning's Fantasy Friday also. If you get a chance, go over to her site and say "hey".
See you later for more Aimless Ramblings.
Enjoy the spanks and the "afterward"!.Thanks for the heads up on a new blog friend. abby
ReplyDeleteI will enjoy. You're welcome
DeleteShame on you for beating me to Minelle's site! I wish you husband was twice as old - oh, wait. I don't mean that exactly - just that you should have your butt beat! I hope you both enjoy his birthday.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
PK
He's old enough, thank you very much.
DeleteHappy Birthday to your hubby! Enjoy his b-day spanking! ;)
ReplyDeleteI'm sure we both will. I'll give him your greetings.
DeleteEnjoy your weekend and Happy Birthday to your Husband, too!
ReplyDeleteThanks, SNP
DeleteHappy birthday to you hubby, sunnygirl! And, I hope you really get a great birthday spanking to go along with the cake and ice cream.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Kitty
Thanks, Kitty. I am sure we will both enjoy his birthday.
DeleteHave a fun birthday day and thanks for letting us know about Minelle. She has left me some sweet comments.
ReplyDeleteThanks Susie, I'm sure we will. Minelle is a sweet addition to our little community.
DeleteDon't you just love birthdays, anybody's birthday lol! :) someone must mention birthday spankings over on my blog coz mine isn't far away and Mitch knows nothing about them.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'll go check out minelle's blog when I get the chance.
Dee x
I do love birthdays just not the years associated with them. Give me the day of your b'day and I will send a little hint.
DeleteYou'll enjoy Minelle. She's a sweetie.
Happy Birthday to your Hubby and enjoy his birthday spanking.
ReplyDeleteThanks for letting us know about Minelle. Good to see her blogging.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Thanks, Ronnie. I am sure we both will.
DeleteI agree with you about Minelle.
With you enjoying spanking so much, its really not to be expected that you two will ever get into a DD relation.
ReplyDeleteYou would cause to much trouble.
Happy birthday to husband and enjoy his rightful birthday spanking.
No, DD relationship for us. There would be no reason. I am so perfect I'd never get spanked.
DeleteThanks for your greetings, I will pass them on.
Glad you're here.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to Sunnyman, lol :D Have a wonderful time.
ReplyDeleteThanks Faerie.
ReplyDeleteI trust that you will get an enjoyable spanking for his birthday.....
ReplyDeleteYour trust was not misplaced.
DeleteI hope you enjoy the backscratcher. Ours isn't a heavy-duty one, so you mat find it pleasantly stingy.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to hubby!
Hugs,
Hermione
I loved the backscratcher. I don't know if its heavy duty but it didn't break so that's something. It was pleasantly stingy. Will use again for sure.
DeleteA backscratcher! I took this idea. My wife earned a discipline spanking the other day. I decided to use the wooden backscratcher we got at Wal-Mart. Now when it comes to discipline spanking, its always hard and fast, no pauses between swats. My wife has a high pain tolerance though. I made sure that I landed it as flat as I could to simulate a paddle. By the tenth swat she was pushing her face in the pillow and biting it to muffle her screams as she was squirming about. It's very effective. Work so well its my default implement now.
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear my critique helped you, maybe not your wife.
DeleteOurs is bamboo and is pretty sturdy and stingy.
Yes, its bamboo I didn't even have to swing hard. It's didn't break and I it sure got her attention. It was thudy like a paddle but I know it stung like the dickens. When I was done she was very contrite. Thanks for the idea. No she didn't like it but I seriously doubt she will need another discipline spanking for a while. This is now my default implement for discipline spankings.
DeleteBamboo backscratcher, hmmmm. What a great idea. We got one from the dollar store. I tried used it on my wife bare backside and I too was impressed. She was whaling and crying after only 30 hard solid smack. I am going to use this more offend for discipline spankings.
ReplyDeleteJust about two weeks ago, I accidentally clipped my boyfriends motorcycle just enough to tip it over. I felt so bad and he was so upset I agreed to take a real spanking (no specified number of swats, no specified time limit, no warm up and no safe word) bare ass with whatever he decided to use. That's what he calls a real spanking. It took him at least three days before he was calm enough to give it me. He never touches me in anger. I have only gotten a few of these in our three years being together.
ReplyDeleteI pushed my pants and panties all the way down to my knees as he asked me too. He picked up a bamboo backscratcher he got from the dollar store. I laid over his lap and he placed it on my backside. He waited for at least a minute and out of no ware just tore into me. He used the flat part of the handle and literally paddled the living daylights out of my bare ass hard and fast with rapid fire whacks (no pauses between swats) from begining to to end. It went on on for like forever. He didn't stop until my entire reer end was welted from the tops my cheeks to my upper thighs.
When he finally let me up I was crying out of control and I did that embarrassing spanking dance. I arched my back, pushed my hips forward, flew my hands over my ass and started rubbing fanatically as I was hoping up and down and turning about in all directions. He said he got so turned on watching me do that spanking dance performance.
Bamboo backscratcher from the pallor store? Stings plenty, ah? I think I will try this on my girlfriends bare ass next time I her a discipline spanking. What would be the best position when using it?
ReplyDeleteSometimes when my boyfriend starts backing off when I start to struggle feels like counterproductive in discipline punishment style spanking. If it that type of spanking and my boyfriend back off or stops, I feel I’m letting him down even though I have relinquished control of this spanking to him. Sometimes I actual asked for a real no nonsense spanking about every other month or so. I like this power exchange that happens and I feel the of energy and cathartic release from being spanked beyond being able to make words. It’s that feeling of not being in control anymore and while the pain is intense and physical I want it to stop and I and I’m yelling, begging and for it to stop, deep inside I want need him continue and turn it up notch and keep going until I change from yelling into a pillow to crying hard and getting that endorphin release. Sure I have burses and welts but that tranquil feeling of being centered again is wonderful. The pain from the spanking is catalyst to release negative emotions. So, sometimes I do ask for a no-nonsense no safe word spanking with no specified number and keep going until I really sobbing. As I am pushing my jeans and panties down, sometimes I have to remind my boyfriend before the spanking start to not to back off just because I am starting to struggle and to actual start the non stop rapid fire swats with no pauses between whacks until I get that sobbing release. I have to remind him that for this one, he gets to decide when I had enough and I trust him explicitly and I really want this. I have to remind of that because he is always so gentle and has always stopped when I yell out safe word. He's big softy and doesn’t ever want to hurt me. But every one in a while, I need and want a real blistering with his office belt or the flat part of the handle of a bamboo backscratcher from the dollar store he has, or a combination of both.
ReplyDeleteI like a real spanking like the kind that goes on until I am bawling, sobbing and crying.
ReplyDeleteI finally opened up to boyfriend of 8 month that I like spanking. So we tried a few times. He spanked me until he was comfortable once. Than he spanked me until I safe worded out a few times. He gave me a timed 2 minutes hand spanking a few weeks later which was pretty good. Than I told what I really wanted to try.
Told him I wanted a very long no-nonsense real discipline punishment style spanking until I am crying beyond my ability to make words. I want no safe word, no time limit, no swat limit, no protection absolutely bare ass and no warm up this time. I told him I want to try to experience the thrill and adrenaline rush of making the choice to submit to it and to see if I can will myself to do. I just wanted to be held afterwards. He was very reluctant at first and we talked about it for days. I asked him for the rapid fire hard and fast style whacks but not at beginning. I wanted him to start off slower and build up so that that the spanking last longer. At first he wasn’t wanting to because he was concerned welts and bruises. After telling him that I expected that. Its still took him over week before he realized I was serious. He finally decided to give it a try.
We had to wait for his roommate to leave for the weekend like he planned to do. We got to his place. I pushed my jeans and panties all the down to my knees. He put me over his lap started spanking me with his hand really hard for a really long time. He let me up and I did that post spanking hop. Stiffened up, flew my hands over my ass as I pushed my hips forward and began rubbing frantically as I was hoping up and down. I was far from crying but I sure was fussing because that was the hardest and longest hand spanking I had ever got. After I calmed down enough stay in one place. He went to his room and came back with a pillow. He handed it to me and than pulled off he leather thin office belt doubled it half and asked me. “Ok, are you sure, no safe word, no time limit and no swat limit?” I respond with a yes. “Ok, that means I decide when this whippin stops not you, you sure that’s what you want, a belt thrashing until you are crying so hard you can’t make out words?”
There I was jeans and panties down to ankles now. As I was still rubbing I looked directly into his eyes, I shuffled over and gently put my arms around him and hugged him. I kissed him ever so gently and I and said, “Yes, please, I really do want to try this. So please don’t hold back but just start of slowly before you tear into me with those rapid fire ones ok?” “You'll get quit a few before I finish you off. Remember, your safe word is nullified the moment you lay over couch.
I laid over the arm of the couch sweezed his bed pillow like a teddy bear. He started in hard and continuous about one whack per second and it just seem to go on and on. I was fussing and yelling and kicking quite a bit every time the belt came down. Than right no where he was tore into my ass really fast. It took my breath away. I shoved my face I to my pillow and started biting it trying to muffle my screaming. He wasn't stopping, instinctively I tried shouting my safe word but he ignored it and he kept whacking away. I was kicking and screaming and it went on and on. I don’t know how long it lasted but I finally broke into sobbing but he still kept whipping my ass hard and fast. When he stopped I was bawling so hard I was hiccup crying and my eyes were all puffy and stinging as tears were flowing and my noise was running. I just laid there sobbing. I couldn’t believe I was actually able to will myself to accept it. Its was pure release and he held me until I calmed down and afterwards I felt so tranquil and centered. I thanked him for giving me what I asked for.
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ReplyDeleteOk, need some input. My boyfriend and I have been together about year. We've been into spanking the past 4 months up till now, its only been fun, erotic. Now my Jason has been doing more reading and thinks I could use some discipline in my life because I tends to reckless and I'm sometimes pretty head strong. I love and love and trust him explicitly. He brought of the 4 D's of D&D to start with. I can't really disagree with him either on a few things. I have a "leather butt" he can smack me with almost anything and it doesn't phase me. We have a safe word, I use it all the time to get out it when it starts to sting a little. I'm a little controlling sometimes.
ReplyDeleteBut even than he feels like it been plenty because I have such a high pain talerence but he get absolutely no reaction from me. One time when he tried to give me 60 swats and lay into me pretty good when we were playing. We always have a specific number. I just hold out until it over. That time it was only determination because he was going to whack me 60 times with his belt nice, slow like I told him too, but it didn't phrase me, I safe worded out at 40. I think he's getting frustrated somhow. But as we were disussing discipline spanking he suggested as a few things those site told him. Now I'm spooked. Theory and reality clashing here. He suggested I give up my safe word for discipline spankings and no no specified swats. But if I do that, I wouldn't know how many I would getting and I wouldn't have a word to stop it. That scary, I wouldn't be in control anymore. Does this make any sense. I mean, I want this but what he's suggesting would make it a real spanking that might really hurt.
My question is for discipline spankings does anyone else have these choices removed for discipline spankings. He is also suggesting no warm up for discipline. This disciple this thing is now getting out of control don't you ladies think? In a discipline agreement is this normal? For discipline spanking, no safe word, no specified number of swats and no warm up? Are discipline agreements really really like this?
You'll need to get advice from someone else regarding the discipline agreement. My husband and I don't do the discipline thing. I do think that a safe word should apply always, no matter what. The rest is usually up to the one in charge and that's why you need a safe word. Use common sense when using that safe word - it shouldn't be used willy-nillly just because you want a spanking to stop, but because you are at the end of your limit.
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